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You carry the weight for everyone — family, work, community. You're the one people lean on, but nobody asks how you're doing. You've never had a space that was just for you.
Putting the Ji in Therapy.
Honest conversations, tools that speak your language, and a community being built — for South Asians who've spent too long translating their pain into someone else's framework.
of Asian adults with mental health needs ever receive treatment — the lowest rate of any racial group in the U.S.
cause of death for AANHPI youth ages 10–24 is suicide — the only racial group in America where this is true
waitlist at the only Punjabi-Sikh mental health center in the United States
The systems weren't built for us.
So we're building our own.
Sources: SAMHSA, CDC, Pew Research
I grew up in a Punjabi Sikh household translating for my parents, explaining my turban to classmates, and learning which version of myself was allowed where. Dollar store runs with my dad. Code-switching every day. Keeping it together because that's what you do.
An ADHD diagnosis later explained a lot. My wife Sukhi is an LCPC — and even with that access, I still struggled to find the words for what I was carrying. There was no space that held both worlds at once.
Now I'm finishing my MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and running TherapaJi — because the South Asian community deserves a voice that sounds like ours. When our men start talking, entire families heal.
"I get it — not because I studied it. Because I lived it. Without the extra explaining."

Your therapist gets 1 of your 168 weekly hours. Amar & Sukhi are talking about the other 167 — the ones that actually shape you.
You carry the weight for everyone — family, work, community. You're the one people lean on, but nobody asks how you're doing. You've never had a space that was just for you.
You grew up translating for your parents and code-switching at school. You built a life between two worlds — but some days you don't fully belong to either one.
You're not in crisis — you're just tired. Tired of performing strength. Tired of "I'm fine." Tired of carrying something you can't name and don't know how to put down.
You're a South Asian therapist, social worker, or researcher tired of working in systems that miss your clients' cultural reality. You want to connect with others doing this work.
You don't have to explain yourself here. Your story makes sense.
Your therapist gets 1 hour a week. TherapaJi is building for the rest — through conversations, tools, community, and eventually, better access to care.
167 Hours with Amar & Sukhi Sandhu, LCPC
Real conversations about the things South Asian families don't talk about — identity, grief, ADHD, spirituality, and what it means to actually heal. On YouTube now.
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Burnout assessment, Punjabi 4-7-8 breathing guide, and emotional vocabulary in Punjabi, Hindi, and Urdu. Tools that don't require you to translate your experience first.
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"When South Asian men start talking,
entire families heal."
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